EFT For Whiplash

26 08 2008

by Rod Sherwin © 2008 http://www.tap4health.com/

At the recent Mind Body Spirit Festival (in Melbourne) I helped four different people with Whiplash. Whiplash is an injury caused when the head snaps forward and then back again and is most often associated with a rear-end collision in a motor vehicle.

Symptoms reported by sufferers of Whiplash include: pain and aching to the neck and back, referred pain to the shoulders, sensory disturbance (such as pins and needles) to the arms & legs and headaches.

I treated people with Whiplash from 30 years ago to 2 days ago. One person had experienced a head ache for 10 years after a car accident. For each person, using 5-10 minutes of EFT, they were able to completely relieve the neck and back pain associated with the whiplash.

If you have ever experienced a car accident or similar trauma to neck and spine be sure to apply EFT to the memory of the accident even if you have no obvious symptoms. Your body remembers the trauma and may still be compensating. Here’s an EFT sequence that can get you started.

Karate Chop: “Even though I have this pain in my neck and back caused by whiplash, I deeply and completely accept myself. Even though my body remembers the trauma of the accident regardless of how long ago it was, I’m ready to release it now. I ask my body to release and heal the trauma that is causing this neck and back pain, allowing myself to heal 100% even better than before.”

Eyebrow (EB): “This whiplash pain in my neck”
Side of the eye (SE): “This whiplash pain and my body’s memory of the accident”
Under the eye (UE): “All the whiplash trauma in my body”
Under the nose (UN): “This whiplash pain in my neck”
Chin (CH): “This whiplash pain in my neck”
Collarbone (CB): “The whiplash pain in my back and neck”
Under the arm (UA): “This whiplash pain in my neck, the headaches, the backaches, allowing myself to heal”
Under the breast (UB): “I’m ready to forgive myself for any thing I did to contribute to this whiplash, and open to one day forgiving anyone else who had anything to do with this whiplash”

After a few rounds, reassess your pain and range of movement, taking care of your own physical wellbeing. Usually, after a few rounds, the pain will move or change in some way. Continue chasing the pain, and come up with a new focusing phrase for the new location of the pain and continue applying EFT until there is no trace left.

This article appeared in Rod Sherwin’s Tap For Health Newsletter. To sign up for his newsletter visit http://www.tap4health.com/

Rod Sherwin is an Energy Therapist, Speaker, and Consultant who helps you transform the quality of your life using breakthrough techniques from the emerging field of Energy Psychology including the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). Explore 100s of FREE articles about applying EFT to stress, fear, money, relationships, weight loss, chronic pain, and depression at www.tap4health.com






EFT Set Ups For Weight Loss

25 08 2008

How Can EFT Help with Weight Loss and Management?

EFT directly targets the emotional causes of overeating and leads to permanent weight loss. Emotional factors are at the core of many problems and issues associated with losing and maintaining a healthy weight. EFT offers you a simple tool to conquer the emotional aspects that may be sabotaging your efforts to lose weight. EFT allows you to target and treat the underlying causes of being overweight—the anxiety, stress and conflicts that drive you to overeat or eat poorly in the first place. EFT can be used in a number of ways to reduce the intensity of emotions and anxiety that lead to overeating or unhealthy eating patterns. EFT can be applied to any of the numerous challenges people face when trying to lose and/or maintain a healthy weight.

EFT helps you to lose weight by reducing food cravings, eliminating emotional triggers to overeating, improving body image and neutralizing future social and environmental relapse triggers.

EFT will enhance the success of any weight loss method or plan you are following and will help you remain motivated and focused on your goals. Unless the underlying emotional causes of overeating or poor eating habits are addressed, weight loss and maintenance may always be a struggle.

One of the greatest benefits of using EFT is that it helps to re-program your mind and nervous system to adopt an entirely different and more healthy attitude towards food. Using willpower to change behavioral patterns around food and eating can be difficult to sustain. With the proper use of EFT, no willpower is required, your mind and body will automatically make positive changes that are in line with your goals.

EFT can be used to target and address:

  • Immediate cravings
  • Compulsive overeating
  • Daily stress and emotional triggers
  • Poor eating habits and patterns
  • Limiting beliefs about your ability to lose weight
  • Body image, confidence and self esteem
  • Fear of the failure and relapse
  • Feelings of frustration, guilt, procrastination, disappointment etc

Click here for article on using EFT for food cravings

Excerpt from EFT Weight Loss Workshop Manual by Angie Muccillo 2007

Below is a  list of EFT set up phrases related to different issues, thoughts and feelings around weight loss. This guide will help you identify and tap on your own particular issues.

Tapping Instructions

Go through the list and tick the statements in bold that feel TRUE to you, even if only slightly true. Next to each statement you tick, write a truth rating, where “10″ means 100% TRUE and “1″ means on slightly TRUE. Space is provided to fill in the “additional phrases” thoughts or feelings that may come up for you or that relate more specifically to the way you feel.

Tap on each statement you have ticked and added, using the EFT Shortcut Method. If other feelings, emotions or memories come up during the rounds of tapping, continue to tap until until each of these are neutralized.

Problem: “I Have Too Much Weight To Lose”

When a task (like losing weight) seems “too big”, our chances of giving up becomes greater and our ability to continue towards our goal weight diminishes. To overcome this and help you maintain your focus and motivation, start with these set up phrases that address feelings of discouragement, anger, fear and worry about how you will lose the weight you have set out to lose.

  • Even though I feel discouraged by how much weight I need to lose, I choose to feel inspired now. Rating…
  • Even though I’m scared I won’t be able to lose all this weight and keep it off for good, I choose to have faith in my ability. Rating…
  • Even though I feel angry that I have to lose this weight, I choose to soothe myself in new ways. Rating…
  • Even though I resent having to lose this weight, I choose to accept myself completely. Rating…

Additional phrases that describe how you feel about reaching your goal weight

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Problem: Sticking to a Menu Plan

Your ability to stick your menu plan is crucial to your success. These set up phrases relate to issues and difficulties associated with sticking to and following and an eating plan.

  • Even though I have trouble sticking to my eating plan, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I don’t have time to eat properly, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I don’t like having to stick to a plan, I’d rather eat what I like when I like, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior.
  • Even though it takes too much effort to follow an eating plan, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I get bored following an eating plan, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m worried there’s not enough food on the menu and I’ll be too hungry, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I don’t want to give up my favorite foods, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I don’t have the time or energy to organize myself properly, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…

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Problem: Food Issues & Cravings

  • Even though I’m obsessed with food, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I overeat, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m a food addict, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m a sugar addict, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I crave sweets at night, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I have a huge appetite, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m a closet eater, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I binge at night, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I have an urge to eat whenever I SMELL food, I I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I have a craving whenever I SEE food, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat when I’m bored, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat when I’m angry, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat when I’m lonely, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat when I’m sad, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat when I’m frustrated, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I overeat to hurt myself, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat to avoid my feelings, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I use food to soothe/comfort myself, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I overeat to hide/protect myself, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I binge because I think I’m worthless, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I overeat because I don’t love myself, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m anxious when I sit down to eat, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I associate food with fighting, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I associate food with my mother’s love, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I feel unsafe without food, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I eat to feel better, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though it’s not safe for me to lose weight, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though it’s not safe for others if I lose weight, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though, I don’t feel supported by my family members, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…

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Problem: Guilt & Shame

  • Even though I hate myself for overeating, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I feel guilty when I overeat, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I beat myself up when I eat the wrong foods, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I feel guilty about being overweight, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I’m embarrassed by my weight I deeply and completely accept myself. Rating…

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Problem: Weight Plateau

Apart from the physical reasons why our weight may plateau, underlying psychological issues may also be responsible. These set ups are designed to release any blocks and challenge your body weight ‘comfort zone’.

  • Even though my weight has reached a plateau, I deeply and completely accept myself and choose to feel comfortable at my goal weight. Rating…
  • Even though I don’t feel comfortable weighing less than ……., I deeply and completely accept myself and choose to feel comfortable at my goal weight. Rating…
  • Even though I have a block to weighing less than……, I deeply and completely accept myself and choose to feel comfortable at my goal weight. Rating…
  • Even though I sabotage myself whenever I weigh less than……., I deeply and completely accept myself and choose to feel comfortable at my goal weight. Rating…
  • Even though (this will happen…..) if I weigh less than……., I deeply and completely accept myself and choose to feel comfortable at my goal weight. Rating…

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Problem: Slow Metabolism

  • Even though my metabolism is too slow, I deeply and completely accept myself.
  • Even though I have trouble increasing my metabolism, I deeply and completely accept myself.
  • Even though I have a slow metabolism, I choose to release and repair everything that slows my body down

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Problem: Self Esteem

  • Even though I don’t deserve to be happy with my body, I deeply and completely accept myself and my behavior. Rating…
  • Even though I believe I don’t deserve to be thin, I choose to feel worthy now. Rating…

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Getting results!

Good luck and be persistent with daily tapping. You will notice that you begin to “forget” about eating binges and begin to be engaged in other activities other than secretive eating or food shopping. The weight will begin to come off as the underlying issues are addressed and the basics of symptomatic behavior are tapped away.

Tip: Tap the index finger point and say, “I forgive myself for overeating…or eating when I’m not hungry…or eating when I’m angry…etc..”

Contact me if you have any questions or would like to book an individual EFT weight loss consultation.

Contact me if you would like to arrange an EFT Weight Loss Workshop for your group.

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





EFT for Romantic Rejection, Relationship Breakups and “Love Pain”

24 08 2008

by Robert Elias Najemy

One of our most devastating emotional experiences is the loss of a loved one. Dr. Roger Callahan the founder of Thought Field Therapy (on which EFT is based) has called this “love pain” and has dedicated a whole book and video to the subject.

Employing EFT on Romantic Rejection

Here is a list of some of the emotions we might feel when someone leaves us. Below each emotion we present some possible set up phrases. These lists as always are there to guide you and never to limit you. There are many other possibilities.

1. Rejection (demeaned, worthless) because he/she does not want to be with me.

A. Even though I feel rejected (demeaned, worthless) because (name of person)____ left me, I deeply and profoundly love myself.
or
Even though until now I felt rejected (demeaned, worthless) because (name of person)____ left me, I now feel (realize, experience) my self-worth as a unique being without him/her.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from this feeling of rejected (being demeaned, worthlessness).

C. Reminder Phrase = Rejected ( demeaned, worthlessness) because _____ left.

2. Fear of continuing life without this person.

A. Even though I fear continuing life alone without (name of person)____ , I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I feared continuing life alone without (name of person)____ , I now feel (realize, experience) self-confidence and powerfully capable of dealing with life.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from this fear of dealing with life.

C. Reminder Phrase = Fear of dealing with life (without ______).

3. Fear (shame) of what others will think about me now that he/she has left.

A. Even though I fear what others will think because (name of person)____ left me, I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I feared what others would think because (name of person)____ left me , I now feel (realize, experience) my self-worth as a unique being, regardless of what they think.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from this fear of what they think.

C. Reminder Phrase = Fear of what they think.

4. Fear that I will not find anyone else to share my life with.

A. Even though I fear I will not find anyone else to share my life with, I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now, I feared I would not find anyone else to share my life with, I now am confident that I deserve and will attract the perfect being for me.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from this fear of not finding someone else.

C. Reminder Phrase = Fear of not finding someone else.

5. Hurt (pain, unhappiness, loneliness) of not having this person to hold, share, make love to, communicate with, etc.

A. Even though I feel hurt (pain, unhappiness, loneliness) because I do not have (name of person)____ to hold (share, make love to, communicate with etc. ? be specific), I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt I hurt (pain, unhappiness, loneliness) because I do not have (name of person)____ to hold (share, make love to communicate with etc. ? be specific), I now experience the fullness of my being and of my life and lovingly connect with those around me.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from this fear o Hurt (pain, unhappiness, loneliness) because I do not have (name of person)____ to hold (share, make love to communicate with etc. ? be specific),

C. Reminder Phrase = Hurt (pain, unhappiness, loneliness) because I do not have (name of person)____ to hold (share, make love to communicate with etc. ? be specific),

6. Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) that he/she is unjustly harming, betraying, hurting us in this way.

A. Even though I feel Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) because (name of person)____ has behaved unjustly, I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) because (name of person)____ has behaved unjustly, I now have faith in the wisdom of what life gives me for my growth process.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from feeling Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) because (name of person)____ has behaved unjustly.

C. Reminder Phrase = Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) because (name of person)____ has behaved unjustly.

7. Guilt (self-rejection) because I feel that I am to blame for his/her leaving.

A. Even though I feel guilt (self-rejection) because (name of person)____ left me , I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt guilt (self-rejection) because (name of person)____ left me, I now forgive and love myself, realizing that I have done and will do my best.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from Guilt (self-rejection) because (name of person)____ left me.

C. Reminder Phrase = Guilt (self-rejection) because (name of person)____ left me.

8. Jealousy if (because) he/she is with someone else

A. Even though I feel jealous because (name of person)____ is with someone else , I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt jealous because (name of person)____ is with someone else, I now feel the fullness of my being trust that life gives me exactly what I need for my growth process (self-actualization).

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from feeling jealousy because (name of person)____ is with someone else.

C. Reminder Phrase = Injustice (bitterness, resentment, betrayal) because (name of person)____ left me.

9. Anger (hate, revenge) because he/she has caused now so much pain.

A. Even though I feel anger (hate, revenge) because (name of person)____ left me (is with someone else) , I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt anger (hate, revenge) because (name of person)____ left me (is with someone else), I now realize that I am perfectly capable of being happy and fulfilled without him/her.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from feeling anger (hate, revenge) because (name of person)____ left me (is with someone else).

C. Reminder Phrase = Anger (hate, revenge) because (name of person)____ left me (is with someone else).

10. Depression (disillusionment, discouragement) that I cannot have what I want and cannot do anything about it.

A. Even though I feel depressed (disillusioned, discouraged) because I cannot be with (name of person)____ , I deeply and profoundly love myself.
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Even though until now I felt depressed (disillusioned, discouraged) because I could not be with (name of person)____ , I now realize (feel, experience) that I have the power to create the life I want.

B. I choose (want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit) to be free from feeling depressed (disillusioned, discouraged) because I cannot be with (name of person)____.

C. Reminder Phrase = Depressed (disillusioned, discouraged) because I cannot be with (name of person)____

It should not take long to work through all of the above. The pain which often takes months, and for some people, years, can be removed in a week or less. We help no one by feeling all these emotions.

Better to get on with our lives.

Below are some thoughts about what we can gain from such a situation.

LEARNING FROM A RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN

A divorce, separation or, in general, any loss of an important relationship is a painful experience. . Such pain can seriously diminish our peace and happiness.  If we are thinking of separating, there are many lessons we need to examine before we can come to the conclusion that we must separate from someone. But if the other leaves us or this separation has already happened, we might be able to benefit from the following.

1. Our first lesson is to examine our behavior to see how we might have contributed to the problem. Only in this way can we create a new healthy relationship if we chose to.

In relation to this we might want to examine the following:

a. We may have been criticizing, complaining, rejecting or otherwise causing the other to feel unaccepted.
b. We may have been seeking continual affirmation in ways that may have been tiring for the other.
c. Our fears may have been causing us to be over sensitive and annoying.
d. Perhaps we were playing games of power, who is right or who is more successful.
e. We might have been playing roles such as the child, the parent, the savior, the holy one, the rebel, the teacher or some other role which may have affected the other?s behavior.
f. We may have guilt feelings that were making us vulnerable to the other?s words or behaviors.
g. Perhaps we were not communicating our needs clearly and effectively as an adult and were suppressing ourselves or complaining, criticizing or threatening.
h. We might have been projecting onto the other our childhood or other experiences.
i. The other might have been reflecting back to us our lack of self-esteem or self-respect.
j. We may have attachments that were coming between us.
k. We may have inner conflicts, which were reflecting back to us from the other.

2. We may need to learn to love the other in spite of his or her behavior, regardless of whether we stay with that person or not.

3. We can discover that we can live without this person and that happiness, security and love are internal states that are always within us, if only we allow ourselves to experience them.

4. We can use this opportunity to develop greater inner strength so as to feel confident and able to face whatever may come to us in the game of life.

5. Most of us will need to change our self-image. We need now to learn to accept, love and respect ourselves more, so that we do not create the same problem in our next relationship or in life in general.

6. By directing our energies in a spiritual direction and developing a relationship with God – the Universal Being, we are no longer so vulnerable or so dependent on others for our feelings of security and self-worth.

7. We may also need to learn that the other’s decision to leave may not be a rejection at all. He or she may love and respect us dearly but be forced by other needs to seek happiness elsewhere.

Our lessons might be separated into five categories:

1. We might need to learn to communicate more effectively, assertively and lovingly.

2. Perhaps we need to let go of some attachments, which are increasing our conflicts with others and diminishing our happiness.

3. Examine our behaviors that might be annoying the other.

4. Free ourselves from subconscious programmings, which limit our self-esteem and ability to attract the behaviors that we deserve.

5. Develop inner feelings of security, self worth and freedom.

Once our happiness, security and love have become internalized, we can experience unconditional love.

Although we need to make every possible step to heal our relationships, if and when a relationship breaks down, there is still much we can learn.

Robert Elias Najemy is the author The Psychology of Happiness available at  http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html.





Breathe Easier! EFT Constricted Breathing Exercise

24 08 2008

Adapted by Angie Muccillo

In this fast paced world our breathing can become extremely shallow, especially when we are stressed or literally don’t stop to take a breath because we are so frantic and busy, trying to cope with the pressures of life.

TRY THIS EXERCISE to promote deeper breathing, improve lung capacity, increase oxygen uptake in the body, reduce anxiety and overwhelm, increase energy levels & reduce fatigue. Gary Craig first described the Constricted Breathing Technique in his DVD set EFT-Beyond the Basics.

Step 1:

Take three deep breaths. On the third breath, judge on a scale of 0-10 (where 0 means you can’t breathe at all and 10 is the deepest breath you could possibly take), how deep are you breathing right now? Make a note of your number…

Step 2:

Starting at the karate chop point, tap with index and finger of the opposite hand, continuously on this point whilst repeating each statement out loud or in your mind:

“Even though I have this constricted breathing, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

“Even though I have this constricted breathing, I choose to breathe deeply.”

“Even though I have this constricted breathing, I ask my body to remember how to breathe deeply.”

“Even though I have this constricted breathing, I ask my lungs to open up”

Step 3:

Tap or rub each treatment point about 5-7 times whilst repeating the following phrases. Repeat 2-3 rounds

EB: “This constricted breathing”
SE: “This constricted breathing”
UE: “This constricted breathing”
UN: “This constricted breathing”
CH: “This constricted breathing”
CB: “I ask my lungs to open up”
UA: “I remember how to breathe deeply”
UB: “I choose to breathe deeply”

Step 4:

Return to the karate chop point, tap continuously while repeating the following statements aloud:

“Even though I still have some of this constricted breathing, I ask my body to remember how to breathe deeply.”

“Even though I still have some of this constricted breathing, I ask my breathing muscles to relax and breathe deeply.”

“Even though I still have some of this constricted breathing, I choose to inhale deeply.”

Step 5:

Tap or rub each treatment point about 5-7 times whilst repeating the following phrases. Repeat 2-3 cycles

EB: “Remaining constricted breathing”
SE: “Remaining constricted breathing”
UE: “Remaining constricted breathing”
UN: “Remaining constricted breathing”
CH: “Remaining constricted breathing”
CB: “I remember how to breathe deeply”
UA: “I choose to inhale deeply.”
UB: “My breathing muscles are completely relaxed”

Step 6:

Take a deep breath and really sigh on the out breath…. On a scale of 0-10, how deep are you breathing right now? Have you noticed any changes? Did the air seem to flow in and out more smoothly, with less effort? Did you feel more relaxed and less anxious or worried?

Sometimes breathing difficulties have an underlying emotional cause. If emotional issues surface such as sadness or anxiety, just keep tapping on these points until you feel the intensity of the emotion subside. Doing this will help you release it within a few minutes of tapping, if not completely, to some extent.

Combine this exercise with the EFT Muscle Relaxant Exercise for deep relaxation.

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EFT Flexibility Exercise

24 08 2008

by Angie Muccillo © 2008

Improve Your Flexibility with EFT

Stacey Vornbrock, M.S., Sports Performance Pioneer, of Breakthrough Performance has been successfully using EFT  to has help elite and amateur athletes improve their Range Of Motion (ROM) as part of her injury recovery protocol. Her method is outlined in my article on EFT Pain Management Methods.

The following exercise applies EFT to areas of the body that feel restricted either due to an old injury, overuse or general lack of flexibility. Build this tapping exercise into your training routine, rehabilitation program, to warm up for playing sport or to improve overall general flexibility. You can also use this exercise in between any body work treatments such as massage, chiropractic, physiotherapy, osteopathy etc.

1. Choose a part of your body that feels tight or restricted

The restriction might be in your neck, shoulders, back, hips, legs etc. Work on one area at a time.

2. Measure the Range of Motion before tapping

If your shoulder feels restricted for example, measure its current “range of motion” by moving your arm up (back/forward/side) as far as feels comfortable or until you meet resistance/pain. Observe how far it goes. Give the restriction a rating out of 10 with 10 being completely restricted.

Click here for the EFT tapping points to use with exercise.

3. Start tapping the karate chop and repeat the following statements:

Even though I have this restricted flexibility in my (neck/shoulder/hips/hamstring/calf) I accept myself

Even though I have this restricted flexibility in my (neck/shoulder/hips/hamstring/calf) I choose to release it along with any stored memories or emotions

Even though I have this restricted flexibility in my (neck/shoulder/hips/hamstring/calf) I forgive myself and anyone else I may blame for causing this restriction

Use the following reminder phrase: restricted flexibility in my …………….. (for 2 or more rounds)

4. Measure Range of Motion again

Again move your arm up (back/forward/side) as far as feels comfortable or until you meet resistance/pain. Observe how far it goes this time. Has your flexibility improved? Does your arm move further this time? If there is still some restriction, do another round as follows.

5. Tap for the remaining restriction

Tapping the karate chop repeat the following statements.

Even though I still have some of this restricted flexibility in my (neck/shoulder/hips/hamstring/calf) I choose to release the rest of it along with any remaining blame, stored memories or emotions.

Use the following reminder phrase: remaining restricted flexibility in my…………….(for 2 or more rounds)

Repeating this exercise often may help muscles to gradually lengthen and stay loose and relaxed. Combine this with the EFT Muscle Relaxant exercise for increasing and encouraging muscle health.

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





Using EFT with Music, Memories & Emotions

24 08 2008

Adapted by Angie Muccillo

EFT Audio Technique

The Audio Technique is an EFT method which consists of using music (songs) as a way to “connect” with past or present negative experiences and then using the EFT tapping points to remove the charge.

The Audio Technique was created by Michel Guindon, EFT-CC, NLP, C.Ht. from Canada to complement the classic EFT method. He offers this highly useful technique for bringing up repressed emotions or core issues using music and EFT. In effect the music (songs) “stir up the emotional pot of memories that are stored in the body at the unconscious and cellular level whilst EFT gently dissolves and weakens their hold, providing resolution and relief, simply and effectively.” This is a tremendous personal healing tool that can also be used in conjuction with the EFT Personal Peace Procedure.

Anyone will benefit from using The Audio Technique mainly due to its uncanny ability to bring up repressed emotions related to events which are partially or totally out of our conscious awareness – the “fine print” on our walls, or the “Blind Spots”.

The Audio Technique a simple non-disclosure technique, where you don’t have to talk about or even be aware of the issues but instead work through them in the comfort of your own mind, guided by the musical soundtracks.

Music, Memories & Emotions

Although we rarely think about it, music has always had a powerful influence on our lives and most of our significant life experiences are linked to it in one form or another. We hear couples referring to a certain song as “their song” while others remember “the good old times” when a tune is played on the radio. Those same songs also take on different meanings depending on our life events. Following the break-up of a relationship or other painful experiences such as the loss of a loved one for example. Those very same songs often become painful reminders – re-stimulating us instantly. Most of us know of some people who have a tendency to isolate themselves and listen to music that matches their state of mind at the time. It seems to provide comfort to know that someone else (the artist, singer, etc.) has gone through something similar and makes them feel understood and validated in some way.

When we think about it, music IS emotion, it is an expression of feelings, both joyful and painful. Many love songs for instance contain themes of abandonment, pain, rejection, betrayal and hurt, both through their lyrics or musical structure. Songs are written to evoke and express emotion. When we listen to a song, our own personal meanings are attached to them. When you choose a song “to work with” you are reacting to the lyrics in your own personal way.

How To Apply The Audio Technique

Click here for the EFT tapping points

Step 1: Choose a song that stirs up any negative emotion or reminds you of a negative past or present event. You may have one or more songs that really stick out for their ability to make you feel a certain way. For instance you may feel like crying when you hear a particular song because it reminds you of a person and relationship that ended badly or caused you to fell hurt and pain. There may even be a song you simply can’t listen to because you know it will make you feel dreadful so you would normally avoid listening to it. This would be a good song to use with this technique, as it is an indication that you have unresolved and repressed emotions, which can be released safely and gently with the tapping. This will help you feel a whole lot better and resolve the issues in question without having to talk about it to anyone. Once you have chosen a song, rate the intensity of the charge on a scale of 0-10.

Step 2: Play the song allowing your emotions to surface. Listen closely to the lyrics, and feel what you have to feel. Also pay attention to where in your body you feel the emotion. Is it in your chest, throat, stomach, heart etc? This is an indication of where the block is stored in your body. Tapping will release the block from this area. Once you are “into the emotion” of the song simply tap on the EFT points continuously until the song ends. Simply listen, feel and tap. The more you feel the emotion while you tap, the greater the release.

Step 3: When the song has finished, play it again and check your emotional responses. Check the intensity of the charge on a scale of 0-10. Has anything changed? Do you still respond in the same way? Chances are the song no longer has the same “hold” on you. It’s meaning may have completed changed for you. If you still feel some emotions, for instance, if you still feel sad or a new emotion has surfaced, simply play the song again and tap continuously as you did before, then check again. Pay attention to where you feel it in your body. Is the same sensation still there or has it disappeared? Repeat this until your “energy runs clean”, that is, you can listen to the song without having ANY negative response to it. Signs that your energy has shifted may include, sighing, new insights, fatigue, yawning, and changes in physical sensations

An Example of How The Audio Technique Works

Michele recounts that “on a personal level, I’ve had a powerful issue come up (fear of being used) while listening to Heart’s “All I Wanna Do”. The story is about a married woman who picks up a man on the road, brings him to a motel and makes love to him. The real story is that she wants a child, something her husband cannot give her, so she goes to plan B – namely this man she picked up. While listening to it, I associated with the man in question and the charge went up to a “10+”. I felt shocked, angry, worthless, used, sad – the works! And what amazes me is that I still cannot relate this experience to any particular event in my life. After playing it several times while tapping, the charge went down to “0″. Now, when I listen to it, it is just another song – nothing more and I feel great.”

There are no right or wrong soundtracks – they either bring up a charge or they don’t. Simply go through your collection. Sometimes just reading the titles will often point to tracks that have “some meaning” to them. There are also music charts on the net that can help you remember tracks you used to listen to when we were younger, and these can often be downloaded with appropriate software.

The Audio Technique was designed as a complement to Classic EFT and is NOT meant to replace it by any means. While this approach has proven highly effective, specific issues may come up that require being handled by EFT as outlined in Gary Craig’s Course or by a qualified EFT Practitioner.





EFT Scripts For Self-Esteem

22 08 2008

By Angie Muccillo © 2008

Become Your Own “Esteem Generator”
“Give yourself an esteem bath daily”

“Just stand in front of the mirror, look yourself in the I and give yourself an esteem bath. Immerse yourself in good feelings, shower yourself with adulation, bathe yourself in love. Do this everyday and you will always leave your house under a full head of esteem”

Swami Beyondanda www.wakeuplaughing.com

Erasing Negative Self-Scripts

In his Palace Of Possibilities Series – Using EFT to Achieve One’s Potential, Gary Craig talks in depth about the “writings on our walls” as a metaphor for our self talk; the attitudes, opinions & beliefs that we have accumulated over the years from our parents, grandparents, teachers, coaches, religion, peers, books, TV and an endless list of other “authorities” in our lives, that we use to define ourselves and our self worth. Our self-judgments are a reflection of the accumulated ‘writings on our walls’ both positive and negative.

We all have different words and statements posted on our walls. The “truths” written on your walls are different from the “truths” written on mine. However, what we may have come to believe as “truths” about ourselves may not really be “truths” at all. They are just the guidelines we have adopted for getting through life-AND-many of them are fictions.

According to Gary Craig, “our cans and cant’s are written on those walls and we obey those dictates as though they were real, without the awareness that they are simply hand-me-down beliefs that were written on our walls by others.”

These “writings” may indeed contain many “negative self scripts” which are the negative statements, negative descriptions, deprecating self remarks, negative attitudes and self-perceptions we hold to be “true” about ourselves, but which only serve to limit our success and happiness and deplete our self confidence.

So before we can become self-affirming, we need to identify and erase the negative beliefs we hold to be true about ourselves. By tapping on your “negative self-scripts” you can clear away a lifetime of accumulated and outdated negative programming and replace it with more positive, life enhancing self-scripts, creating real and dramatic changes in your level of self-confidence.

You can use EFT to identify and release all of your accumulated “negative self-scripts”.

Clearing the negative self-scripts from your “mental closet” can have major implications for your overall mental health and wellbeing.

Investing time in yourself to systematically EFT (“spring-clean”) all your negative self scripts out of existence, is an exercise in self-care and self love.

Believing in Negative Self-Scripts http://www.coping.org/growth/affirm.htm#What

The outcome of believing in negative self-scripts can result in:

Over-dependence on the approval of others: You may have an inordinate need to receive positive reinforcement or approval for what you are, how you act, and what you do from others, with an inability to be self-rewarding.

Lack of self-esteem and low self-concept: You may have an inability to believe in your own worth, inability to see any value in your own life, a poor self-image, and a lack of belief in your competency to succeed in life.

Immobilization: A rigid belief system immobilizes you from taking risks in life, prevents you from wanting to make a change, freezes your feelings into a negative pattern, and convinces you that your only role in life is to be victimized by those from whom you cannot escape.

Negativity: Your negative view of yourself leads you to see all of your world in a negative light. You begin to believe and act as a `”loser.” You see nothing in a positive light and can’t be convinced that there is a better option in life.

Pessimism: You no longer believe that you will succeed and are no longer willing to take an optimistic position as you look to your future. You can see only gloom and doom on the horizon.

Self-Pity: You begin to feel so sorry for yourself and how life has treated you that you become your best “pity party” guest. You are so lost in your self-sorrow, regrets, remorse, sympathy, and pity that you refuse to be shaken or changed. You begin to believe that no one will notice you if they can’t feel sorry for you too.

Cynicism: You take a “yes-but” cynical look at every suggestion for change in your life. You begin to doubt in the sincerity, kindness, and love of others who are trying to help you. You create a barrier of cynicism to block them out, thus convincing yourself when they leave you that they really didn’t care.

The “Guard-All Shield”: You create an invisible shield, tough for others to see or to penetrate. People will approach you and try to get involved, but you zap them with your shield and they back away or turn and run. The shield is so subtle that at times you don’t even know it exists, and you get confused by people pulling away from you. This shield can take the form of coldness, wise cracking, fear of being hurt, aloofness, unwillingness to change or take a risk, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of intimacy, fear of failure, fear of hurting others, or any other feeling that keeps you from connecting emotionally with another person

Fulfillment of the Prophecy: Because negative self-scripts predict the worst, you at some subconscious level work to achieve the worst and succeed in fulfilling the negative prophecy of: failure, rejection, loss, disapproval, or any other catastrophe or malady. It is a pattern of being self-destructive with one’s life.

How To Become An Esteem Generator

STEP 1: The first step in becoming your own “esteem generator” is to release all of your negative self scripts.

Begin by making a list under each of the following categories:

1. Negative beliefs you have about yourself and of which you remind yourself daily. E.g. “I’m a bad mother” “I don’t deserve to be loved” I’m a useless so and so”

2. Negative statements about yourself which sprinkle your every­day conversation. E.g. “I’m not very good at….” “I’m not good with money”

3. Self-deprecating remarks that influence your behavior or beliefs. “I’m a loser” “I’m so stupid” “I’m a failure”

4. Negative descriptions given to you by members of your family of origin or peer group when you were younger onto which you hold even to this day. E.g. “you will never amount to anything” “you’re too big for your boots”

5. Negative feedback you get from your spouse, boss, teacher, colleagues, children, parents, relatives, or others that you take personally and incorporate into your personal belief system. E.g. “You’ll never save up for your own home, the way you waste your money”

6. Negative self-images you have of your body, looks, face, weight, coloring, hair, feet, or other parts of your body, which as you visualize, influence your presentation of self to others. “I hate my fat thighs” “I’m ugly”

7. Negative assessment you or others have made of your competency, skills, ability, knowledge, intelligence, creativity, or common sense. You have agreed with this internally and, thus, believe it true of you. E.g. “you don’t have the brain for business”

8. Negative stories about your past behavior, failures, or performances that you systematically run over in your mind and which influence your current conduct. E.g. “once a cheater, always a cheater, once a smoker, always a smoker” etc.

9. Negative attitudes about the possibility of your achievement of success in your life; these influence your motivation, effort, and drive for attainment of goals. E.g. “I will never get a promotion/pay rise

10. Negative visualizations you have of your current status or state in life to your personal detriment. E.g. “I’m just a housewife”

11. Feelings of guilt for real or imagined debilitating wrongs you have committed that prevent positive self-valuing thoughts. E.g. “I don’t deserve happiness because I cheated on my ex girlfriend.”

12. Negative prophecies that you or others have made about yourself, your future, your success, your relationships, your family, or your health. E.g. “I’ll never find my perfect partner”

Now that you have created a list of all your negative self scripts, start with the most “highly rated script” or “the most highly charged” belief and apply EFT to each item on your list.

Examples:

“Even though I’m a bad mother, I deeply and completely love and accept myself”

“Even though I don’t deserve to be loved, I deeply and completely love and accept myself

“Even though I’m not good with money” etc

STEP 2: Counter negative self-scripts and feel better about yourself with these “I” Catching Mirror Exercises!

“I” Catching Mirror Exercise # 1- Self Appreciation Script

Use this exercise if you are feeling generally unloved, unappreciated and unnoticed. Replace the word “nobody” with the name of the person who is making you feel this way.

Instructions:

Standing in front of the mirror, look yourself in the “I” and while rubbing the sore spot or tapping the karate chop repeat the following:

“Even though (nobody) appreciates me, I choose to shower MYSELF with adulation and bathe myself in love”

“Even though (nobody) loves me, I choose to shower MYSELF with adulation and bathe myself in love”

Even though (nobody) pays any attention to me, I choose to shower MYSELF with adulation and bathe myself in love”

Tap several rounds of:

  • Nobody appreciates me
  • Nobody loves me
  • Nobody pays any attention to me

Then tap several rounds of:

  • I choose to shower MYSELF with adulation and bathe myself in love

“I” Catching Mirror Exercise # 2 – Statements of Self-Belief

“I am” “I can” “I will”

The daily use of these “I” statements is another form of self-affirmation designed to counter negative self-concepts. It can result in a positive attitude, optimism, and can motivate you toward emotional growth and progress.

Here are some healing, positive self-scripts you can give to yourself to counter your negative self-scripts (with or without the mirror!).

“I am” statements

This are positive affirmations of a real state of being that exists in you. Brainstorm and write your own list of “I am” statements, by taking a personal positive inventory of your attributes, strengths, talents, and competencies.

Examples include:

  • I am competent
  • I am energetic
  • I am strong
  • I am enthusiastic
  • I am intelligent
  • I am relaxed
  • I am beautiful
  • I am joyful
  • I am a good person
  • I am trusting
  • I am caring
  • I am generous
  • I am loving
  • I am courageous
  • I am smart
  • I am forgiving
  • I am creative
  • I am open
  • I am talented
  • I am sharing

Repeat these “I am” statements while tapping the EFT points to install a new healthier self-script.

“I Can” Statements

These are positive affirmations of your ability to accomplish goals. It is a statement of your belief in your power to grow, to change, and to help yourself.

Brainstorm and write your own “I can” statements and tap on them.

Examples include:

  • I can lose weight
  • I can stop smoking
  • I can heal
  • I can handle my children
  • I can let go of guilt
  • I can gain self-confidence
  • I can let go of fear
  • I can take risks
  • I can change
  • I can be a winner
  • I can be positive
  • I can be strong
  • I can be a problem solver
  • I can pass calculus
  • I can handle my own problems
  • I can laugh and have fun
  • I can be honest with my feelings
  • I can be assertive
  • I can let go of being compulsive
  • I can control my temper
  • I can succeed

“I Will” Statements of Positive Change in Your Life

These are positive affirmations of a change you want to achieve. They are positive statements of what you want to happen. They are your “success prophecies.”

Brainstorm and write your own list of “I will” statements and tap on them to help install more empowering self-scripts.

Examples include:

  • I will like myself better each day
  • I will gain emotional strength each day
  • I will lose weight each day
  • I will smoke less each day
  • I will control my temper today
  • I will give others responsibility for their lives today
  • I will grow emotionally stronger each day
  • I will smile more at my customers today
  • I will offer my comments in class today
  • I will praise my children today
  • I will feel good things about me today
  • I will sleep easily tonight
  • I will feel less guilt each day
  • I will face my fears courageously today
  • I will take on only what I can handle today
  • I will take care of me today
  • I will challenge myself to change today
  • I will manage my time better today
  • I will handle my finances wisely today
  • I will take a risk to grow today

“I” Catching Mirror Exercise # 3 – Self Appreciation Meditation

This is a self-appreciation meditation by Shakti Gawain, which you can use EFT with.

Tap the EFT points as you imagine yourself in some everyday situation, and picture someone (maybe someone you know, or a stranger) looking at you with great love and admiration and telling you something they really like about you.

Now picture a few more people coming up and agreeing that you are a very wonderful person. (If this embarrasses you, stick with it.) Imagine more and more people arriving and gazing at you with tremendous love and respect in their eyes. Picture yourself in a parade or on a stage, with throngs of cheering, applauding people, all loving and appreciating you. Hear their applause ringing in your ears. Stand up and take a bow, and thank them for their support and appreciation.

Here’s to a new healthier self-esteem!

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





Using EFT To Release the Pain Of “Saying Goodbye”

22 08 2008

By Angie Muccillo © 2007

The Pain of Saying Goodbye

Is there a person, place, or situation in your life you have to say “goodbye” to? Is someone you love moving away, or dying, or are you the one moving away and leaving the place and the people you love behind? Does the thought of saying goodbye in this case cause sadness or pain, regret, abandonment, grief, bitterness or fear? Alternatively is there someone or something in the past that you had to say goodbye to and the thought of it still creates pain?

As life is never stagnant the people and places in our lives will always come and go and so we are all at some stage faced with the prospect of saying goodbye. This is a time which can be filled with an array of positive and negative emotions. Many a song lyric, movie, poem and novel has been written around the theme of painful goodbyes.

Tap On Your Goodbyes

Using EFT to release the pain of “saying goodbye” can make it easier to accept the situation or to “let go and move on” from whatever person or circumstance is leaving or has left your life. Saying goodbye is not always painful, but when it is painful, taking the time to focus on it and tap can be very healing and emotionally liberating. It is also useful as a personal peace exercise.

How To Tap on Your Goodbyes

Past Goodbyes

Make a list of all the “painful goodbyes” you can think of from when you were a child until now. Give each “painful goodbye” a name or label (“the time I had to say goodbye to……”)and apply the EFT Movie Technique to each one of these movies until you release all the negative emotions around these specific events.

Future Goodbyes

Think of a person, place or thing that you will be saying goodbye to in the near future and on a scale of 0-10 rate how upset you are at the thought of this? E.g. It may be a friend who’s moving away or a close colleague who is leaving work or a child that is moving out of home or a parent who is returning to their home country or a partner who is leaving for war duty etc. Use the sets ups below or create your own.

“Even though it’s hard to say goodbye to______________ I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “It’s hard to say goodbye”

“Even though saying goodbye to ______________ is painful and fills me with (sorrow/pain/fear/regret/anger etc) I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “Saying goodbye is painful”

“Even though I don’t want to say goodbye to_____________ I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “I don’t want to say goodbye”

“Even though saying goodbye hurts, I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “Saying goodbye hurts”

“Even though I don’t want to move on in my life without ____________________, I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “I don’t want to move on without you. Don’t make me”

“Even though I hate goodbyes, I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “I hate goodbyes”

“Even though I’m afraid of letting go and moving on, I deeply and completely accept myself.” Reminder: “Fear of letting go and moving on”

Energetic Goodbyes

Perhaps there is someone you still haven’t said “goodbye” to “properly” in your heart or you didn’t have a chance to say goodbye to before they died. If there is someone you feel “ready” to say “goodbye” to, you can either think about or look at a picture of them and tap continuously as you repeat the word “goodbye” at each point.

“Say Goodbye” to the Pain of “Saying Goodbye”

Someone very important to me is about to leave my life by moving away, so now more than ever I am very grateful for the use of EFT in helping me to release the “yucky stuff” so I can embrace the experience with joy and gratitude. For me this current “goodbye” has triggered deep sadness reminding me of the pain associated with “past goodbyes” all of which I can neutralize with EFT.

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





From Fear Of Intimacy To An Open Heart

22 08 2008

By Angie Muccillo © 2007

Set Ups with Commitment!
Using the EFT Set Up Statement as “A Pledge”

To me the use of the ‘sore spot’ when performing the EFT Set Up feels somewhat like making a pledge. We place a hand over the heart and massage it while making a verbal acknowledgment, statement of intention, purpose or commitment.

A pledge is somewhat like a ‘heartfelt promise’ or commitment. We make all sorts of pledges – we pledge things to ourselves, to our country, to our kids, to others…

When we make a pledge, we state our commitment to doing or being or having something. When we make a pledge, we are directly stating our intention. I like to use the EFT set up statement, as a way of making a pledge (to release what is holding me back in preference for something I want to be, do or have.)

Below is an example of an EFT Pledge Statement using the common‘fear of intimacy’ as an example. You can use this exercise if you have been hurt in a relationship and fear getting close to someone else for fear of getting hurt again. This is a great “baggage buster” exercise! “Out with the old” fears and “in with the new” commitment to love!

EFT Pledge Statement – From Fear Of Intimacy To An Open Heart

Try this heart opening exercise..

Place your hand on your heart (otherwise known as the sore spot in EFT) and massage it in a circular motion while making the following pledge statement aloud:

“Even though I have this fear of intimacy, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I fear that if I get close to someone again, I will just risk getting hurt again and that will mean experiencing all that pain over again, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I cover up my fear of intimacy by busying myself and keeping myself distracted, I realize this no longer serves my highest good and choose instead to release and trust that things will always turn out for the best, even if at the time it doesn’t appear to be so. Even though I fear making myself vulnerable for fear of getting hurt, I choose to open my heart slowly, bit by bit, at my own pace and in my own time. I choose to learn how to trust others again and start by trusting myself implicitly. Even though this fear of intimacy is preventing me from having the best possible relationship, I choose to open my heart to love again so that I can enjoy deep, meaningful and loving relationships. Even though at times I don’t allow an intimate connection with myself, I choose to nurture and support myself in all that I do. I choose to let go of my fear of being hurt and I choose to feel safe and secure.”

Reminder Pledge:

Tap one (shortcut) round of each of these statements

Round 1: “I hereby choose to be completely free of the all fears that are keeping me from being intimate and loving again.”

Round 2: “I hereby release all fears and doubts about my ability to be intimate and to love again.”

Round 3: “I choose to open my heart slowly, bit by bit, at my own pace and in my own time”

Round 4: “I choose to let go of my fear of being hurt and I choose to feel safe and secure in a new relationship”

Round 5: “I choose to open my heart to love again so that I can enjoy deep, meaningful and loving relationships”

Round 6: “I hereby commit to love”

Create your own pledge statements for any area in your life or problem you would like to address or change.

What sort of a pledge will you make?

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





EFT Gratitude Protocol

22 08 2008

by © Angie Muccillo 2007

Here’s a simple little EFT protocol with the potential to increase EFT’s effectiveness.

Are you grateful to EFT? I definitely am. I am grateful not only for the many positive effects it has had on my life personally, but also the many wondrous changes and healing I see in others as a result of using EFT. I think most people who have used EFT and achieved some degree of success with their personal and emotional issues, have felt and expressed gratitude for what EFT has done for them. We have many documented accounts of these on the EFT website and in our clinics and offices worldwide.

In her “Gratitude Diet” article, Carol Tuttle recommends we tap on everything we are grateful for in our lives, as a way of focusing on what we have or want to attract more of. So I thought why not add EFT to that list?! In essence, if we want to attract more success with our use of EFT, let’s express our gratitude for it, like anything else. Carol also states “gratitude is one of the highest states of emotion we can experience.” If we tap on our gratitude for EFT, we are focusing on our highest thoughts of EFT and placing our attention and thoughts on what we are grateful that EFT is doing for us. In other words we use the EFT affirmation to affirm EFT!

Tap on Gratitude for EFT

The idea is simply to use the EFT Gratitude Protocol at the end (or beginning) of a tapping session with a round or two of statements focused on our gratitude towards EFT. I think giving thanks to EFT is a kind of pleasant and harmonious way to open or close a tapping session whether it is with a practitioner or on your own. Whether the session has completely resolved your issues or not, inserting the Gratitude Protocol at the end, may set a positive scene for future tapping and perhaps help build a bridge to the next session. I would also recommend using the Gratitude Protocol routinely as a daily or homework exercise or when you feel “stuck”.

EFT Gratitude Statements:

Tap the EFT points while repeating each statement:

I am deeply and completely grateful for EFT

I am deeply and completely grateful for releasing these emotions with EFT

I am deeply and completely grateful for the ease with which EFT is helping me to release my fears, phobia’s, and traumatic memories etc

I am deeply and completely grateful to EFT for relieving my back/shoulder pain etc

I am deeply and completely grateful for the ease with which EFT is helping me to release my addictions

I am deeply and completely grateful I have EFT to help me release my pain and suffering

I am deeply and completely grateful for the ease with which EFT works for me each and every time

I am deeply and completely grateful I have a tool to help me calm down whenever I need it

I am deeply and completely grateful for the positive changes EFT has helped me make in my life

I am deeply and completely grateful for the many benefits I am receiving from using EFT daily

I am deeply and completely grateful for the positive impact EFT is having on my life and those around me

I am deeply and completely grateful for the peace and calm EFT has brought into my life

I am deeply and completely grateful to EFT for improving the quality of my life

I am deeply and completely grateful I have discovered this wonderful tool!

These are just a few suggestions. I am sure there’s a lot of gratitude out there for EFT! Let’s hear it and share it.

As a general rule write your statements as though your EFT goals have already been achieved.

This protocol may also be useful when EFT “doesn’t appear to be working” or you feel “stuck” or frustrated. Whilst there are many one minute wonders in EFT, as we know, some issues do take time to break down and in the process we may find ourselves getting frustrated, overwhelmed even unappreciative and forgetful of the progress we have actually made. We can use this protocol to help break free from some of these barriers by switching our thinking to what we are grateful for instead.

We can use the Choices Method to install the gratitude statements.

Example set ups:

“Even though EFT isn’t working for me on (this issue), I choose to be grateful to EFT for helping me release these emotions and for all the healing I have achieved so far”

“Even though I don’t get the same results as XXX, I choose to be grateful I have a tool to help me calm down whenever I need it”

“Even though I’m sick of tapping and don’t seem to be getting anywhere, I am grateful for the positive changes EFT has helped me make in my life”

What are you grateful for when it comes to EFT? Write your list of gratitude statements and tap on them regularly. Send me your gratitude statements if you wish. I would love to combine all our gratitude statements in one big growing “glowing” list of gratitude for EFT.

Spreading EFT with love and gratitude!

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmailcom





How To Beat Food Cravings with EFT

22 08 2008

by © Angie Muccillo 2007

Food Cravings

“Is a morning without orange juice and coffee unthinkable? Can you eat just one cookie, or do they keep calling from the cupboard until they’re all gone? Do you sometimes feel an overwhelming urge to crunch that only chips, not apples, will satisfy?

For most of us, forgoing favorite foods at certain times is not only unthinkable, it seems beyond our ability.

If foods with pleasurable tastes and textures are used as a reward or to provide solace, a practice commonly begun in childhood and continued throughout life, then the psychological component for craving such foods grows even stronger.” International Food Information Council & Food Insight July/August 1991

The EFT Cravings Procedure – Your Tapping Script To Good Health

The EFT Cravings Procedure is specifically formulated to drastically reduce or totally eliminate unwanted cravings while you are experiencing them. With this technique you literally have at your fingertips an effective, simple tool to massively cut down on the cravings that cause overeating and diet sabotage! Tapping on a craving takes the intense desire for the food you crave and neutralizes it so that the craving disappears and no will power to resist the food is required.

“Craving” in this case refers to an intense desire for a “junk food,” an unhealthy food, a calorie-laden food with no nutritional value, or even a food not on your diet.

You can also use this tapping script daily before cravings surface. Simply make a list of all the foods you normally crave and for each one apply the EFT Cravings procedure as set our below.

Here’s your script to good health!!

Step 1: Exactly what are you craving?

Name the food, including any brand names if applicable. Such as, “Black Forest Tim Tams,” or “Smith’s Salt and Vinegar Crinkle Cut Chips” or “Kentucky Fried Chicken Zinger Burger” or “Mc Donald’s Big Mac” or “Mum’s home made Pavlova” etc. The more specific, the more effective the procedure.

Step 2: How strong is the craving or desire for this food?

On a scale of 0 -10 rate how strong the craving/desire is. 10 being “absolutely must have it now” and 0 being “no desire whatsoever for the food”

Step 3: Apply the EFT Procedure

Click here for tapping points

a) Start by rubbing the tender spot and say out aloud or in your mind

“Even though I have this strong craving, I deeply & completely accept myself.”

“Even though I cannot control my craving for (name the food), I deeply & completely accept myself.”

“Even though I really want to eat this food, I deeply & completely accept myself.”

“Even if I never get over my craving for (name the food), I deeply accept myself.”

b) Start Tapping

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “This strong craving.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “This strong craving.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “This horrible craving.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “Can’t control this craving.”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “Can’t control this craving.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “This craving.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “This need to put it in my mouth”

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “This need to put it in my mouth”

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “This strong craving.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “This strong craving.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “This horrible craving.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “Can’t control this craving.”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “Can’t control this craving.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “This craving.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “This need to put it in my mouth

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “This need to put it in my mouth”
Tap the Top of the Head, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “Completely over this craving”

Take a deep breath.

Step 4: Check the intensity of the craving

Now focus in on the different reaction you have when thinking about the specific food. Perhaps your mouth is not salivating as much. Or the urge is less…or completely gone. Perhaps the food has no attraction for you right now…or even repulses you.

Step 5: Additional Rounds

If the craving has not completely disappeared continue with additional rounds of tapping. Underlying emotional issues often trigger overeating.

a) Start by rubbing the tender spot and say out aloud or in your mind

“Even though I still feel this craving, I choose to feel full and satisfied”

“Even though I feel deprived if I don’t satisfy my craving, I choose to feel full and satisfied”

“Even though I feel deprived and try to fill that with food I choose to allow my body to crave healthy food instead”

Even though I feel empty and deprived and hungry for something, I choose to feel full and satisfied”

“Even though eating this food gives me comfort and eases my pain and troubles, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

b) Start Tapping

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “My deprivation makes me crave food.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “I still feel this craving for my food.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “I still feel deprived.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “”Eating this food gives me comfort and eases my pain and troubles.”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “This remaining craving.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “This remaining deprivation.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “I feel empty and deprived”

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “I feel hungry for something”

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “Eating this food gives me comfort and eases my pain and troubles.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “I still feel this craving for my food.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “I still feel deprived.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “I still have some of this craving left.”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “This remaining craving.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “This remaining deprivation.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “I feel empty and deprived”

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “I feel hungry for something”

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “I feel full and satisfied.”

Tap the Eyebrow Point, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Side of Eye Point, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Under the Eye Point, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Under the Nose, and say, “My body craves healthy food

Tap the Chin Point, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Collarbone Point, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Under the Arm, and say, “My body craves healthy food.”

Tap the Under the Breast, and say, “My body craves healthy food”

Continue tapping on any other thoughts, memories or emotions that come up at any stage of this procedure.

If you have any questions or to leave comments about your experience with this tapping script/procedure please send me an email at: sublime@pacific.net.au

For more information on EFT & Weight Loss visit the EFT web site – a new approach to permanent weight loss

The Key to Successful Weight Loss focuses on a diet for long term success. It addresses the emotional factors behind weight control and other issues. The developers of the program, Dr. Patrica Carrington, Dr. Carol Look and Sandi Radomski are all well respected experts in EFT.

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Dip Illustrative Photography – Fine Art/Photjournalism)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





Using EFT For Sleep Problems During Pregnancy

22 08 2008

by Angie Muccillo ©2006

Why Is Sleeping Sometimes Difficult During Pregnancy?

The hormonal changes and physical discomforts associated with pregnancy can affect a pregnant woman’s quality of sleep. Each trimester of pregnancy brings its own unique sleep challenges. According to the National Sleep Foundation, the following are the most common sleep changes that may occur in each trimester:

First Trimester

  • Frequent waking due to an increased need to go to the bathroom.
  • Disruptions in sleep as a result of physical and emotional stress associated with pregnancy.
  • Increased daytime sleepiness.

Second Trimester

Sleep during the second trimester improves for many women since nighttime urination becomes less of an issue as the growing fetus reduces pressure on the bladder by moving above it. Still the quality of sleep may remain poor as a result of the growing baby and emotional stress associated with pregnancy.

Third Trimester

You are likely to experience the most sleep problems during this trimester as a result of the following:

Discomfort due to your growing belly.
Heartburn, leg cramps, and sinus congestion
Frequent nighttime urination returns, as the baby’s position changes to put pressure on the bladder once again.

Source: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=47533

Your sleep problems may have other causes as well. Many pregnant women report that their dreams become more vivid than usual, and some even experience nightmares. Stress can interfere with sleep, too. Maybe you’re worried about your baby’s health, anxious about your abilities as a parent, or feeling nervous about the delivery itself. All of these feelings are normal, but they may keep you (and your partner) up at night.

Using EFT for Sleep Problems During Pregnancy

In her article “Tired Of Not Being Able To Sleep – The EFT Solution”, Dr. Patricia Carrington acknowledges that “a growing number of people who have learned the EFT technique find it is incredibly useful in helping them to sleep. There are a number of ways EFT can be used to induce pleasant sleep”

EFT can help with the physical and emotional stress associated with pregnancy. EFT can be used to tap on your worries, fears, anxieties and physical problems that may be interfering with your ability to sleep.

Stimulating the EFT points will help to soothe your stressed out nervous system and provide a sedative and calming effect helping you to fall asleep naturally.

If you have not learnt how to perform EFT simply follow the instructions below to apply the technique.

You can use the following EFT tapping scripts every night before going to bed, when you are having difficulty falling asleep or if you wake up during the night. Instead of lying there not being able to sleep, with thoughts running uncontrollably through your mind, you now have a simple and natural strategy you can apply to effectively induce sleep.

Step-By-Step Tapping Instructions For Sleep Problems

If you are not familiar with the EFT Tapping Points click here for the EFT diagram. Use this as a guide to help you locate and learn the points to tap on before you begin.

The first few rounds of tapping will focus on the general problem of inability to sleep.

Step 1: EFT Set Up Statement

While rubbing the “Tender Spot” repeat the following statements:

“Even though I can’t get to sleep I deeply and completely accept myself.”

“Even though I have too many worries, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

“Even though I feel anxious and stressed, I deeply and completely accept myself

“Even though I am uncomfortable I deeply and completely accept myself.”

Step 2: The EFT Sequence (Sleep Tapping Script)

Tap each of the points while repeating the following statements at each point:

Eyebrow (EB): I can’t sleep

Side Of the Eye (SE): I have too many worries

Under the Eye (UE): I’m too stressed

Under the Nose (UN): I feel uncomfortable

Chin (CH): I’m too anxious

Collarbone (CB): I have too many worries

Under the Arm (UA): I’m too stressed

Under the Breast (UB): I feel uncomfortable

Top of the Head: TH: I can’t sleep

Take a deep breath and continue..

Eyebrow (EB): I can’t sleep

Side Of the Eye (SE): I have too many worries

Under the Eye (UE): I’m too stressed

Under the Nose (UN): I feel uncomfortable

Chin (CH): I can’t sleep

Collarbone (CB): I have too many worries

Under the Arm (UA): I’m too stressed

Under the Breast (UB): I feel uncomfortable

Top of the Head: TH: I can’t sleep

Take a deep breath and continue..

Eyebrow (EB): I can’t sleep

Side Of the Eye (SE): I have too many worries

Under the Eye (UE): I’m too stressed

Under the Nose (UN): I feel uncomfortable

Chin (CH): I can’t sleep

Collarbone (CB): I have too many worries

Under the Arm (UA): I’m too stressed

Under the Breast (UB): I feel uncomfortable

Top of the Head: TH: I can’t sleep

Take a deep breath and continue..

Eyebrow (EB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Side Of the Eye (SE): My body is relaxing now

Under the Eye (UE): I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Nose (UN): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Chin (CH): I choose to release my worries now

Collarbone (CB): My body is relaxing now

Under the Arm (UA): I am allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Breast (UB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Top of the Head: TH: I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Take a deep breath and continue..

Eyebrow (EB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Side Of the Eye (SE): My body is relaxing now

Under the Eye (UE): I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Nose (UN): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Chin (CH): I choose to release my worries now

Collarbone (CB): My body is relaxing now

Under the Arm (UA): I am allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Breast (UB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Top of the Head: TH: I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Take a deep breath and continue..

Eyebrow (EB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Side Of the Eye (SE): My body is relaxing now

Under the Eye (UE): I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Nose (UN): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Chin (CH): I choose to release my worries now

Collarbone (CB): My body is relaxing now

Under the Arm (UA): I am allowing myself to go to sleep

Under the Breast (UB): I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Top of the Head: (TH): I’m allowing myself to go to sleep

Take a deep breath and assess how you are feeling. Continue with this exercise for about 5 – 10 minutes. Some people fall asleep in the middle of tapping. If so, great! If not, below are more statements you can pick and choose from, dependant on your particular situation. Create your own statements using the formula you have just learnt.

Step 3: Getting More Specific

Repeat the above process to:

1) Tap on Your Anxieties Fears & Worries

“Even though I’m anxious about (worried that, etc., fill in whatever it is that worries you), I choose to be calm and relaxed”

Examples:

Even though I’m worried about my baby I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m worried about how we’re going to pay the bills I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though everything worries me I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m worried about the results of the tests I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I don’t have enough help and support I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m exhausted during the day because I can’t sleep at night, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m too physically exhausted to cope with all my day-to-day demands, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I don’t have any time to myself, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I cry all the time, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Write down your own list of anxieties, fears and worries

2) Tap on Your Anger

“Even though I’m angry (fill in with, who or what you are angry about), I choose to stay calm and relaxed”

Examples:

Even though I’m too angry to sleep, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m furious with the hospital/doctor/nurse, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I’m angry with myself for_____, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

Even though I loose my patience with_______, I choose to stay calm and relaxed

3) Tap on Your Physical Discomforts

“Even though I have (fill in whatever physical discomfort you are experiencing), I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Examples:

Even though I have these leg cramps I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I have to urinate so often I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I have an active baby I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I have difficulties turning over in bed I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I am short of breath I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I have heartburn I deeply and completely love and accept my body

Even though I have this backache I deeply and completely love and accept my body

3) Tap on Your Nightmares

If you wake up from a nightmare feeling upset, traumatized, scared and worried, simply start tapping on the points. Your body is flooded with the chemicals of fight or flight, and your energy system is disrupted effecting you ability to go back to sleep. Tapping a few rounds of EFT with settle your emotions and help to release the awful feelings you may experiencing. You don’t need to repeat any statements when you do this. Simply tap while you feel upset until you fell calm again.

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Dip Illustrative Photography – Fine Art/Photjournalism)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com





EFT Methods for Pain Management

22 08 2008

Guide For Using EFT as a Pain Management Tool

Compiled by Angie Muccillo

Gary Craig states:

“EFT’s results for pain management are often impressive. In most cases, pain vanishes or noticeably reduces within a few minutes of applying EFT. Also, repeated applications of EFT often eliminate chronic pains so that they no longer re-appear daily, weekly or monthly. This is pain relief at its best and doesn’t involve drugs or painful procedures of any kind.

For those who don’t achieve instant results, EFT is still likely to provide relief. However, in these cases more sophisticated approaches are usually necessary. Sometimes the principle cause of the pain is one or more unresolved emotional issues such as anger, fear, guilt or trauma. EFT is ideally designed to address these emotional issues and, once properly resolved, many physical ailments subside.

It didn’t matter whether your pain is acute, chronic, distracting or debilitating, EFT can provide relief, usually quickly and often permanently … sometimes in as little as three minutes. ” Gary Craig

Below are four different methods developed by various EFT Practitioners and used widely in the treatment of physical pain. I have compiled these methods into simple to follow step by step tapping scripts. Follow the instructions below for applying EFT to your physcial pain. The example of shoulder pain has been used throughout these exercises. Simply replace the word shoulder with your own injury or physical pain.

Click here for the EFT tapping points diagram

1. Injury Recovery Method
2. Method for Releasing Physical Pain and Discomfort
3. Method for Programming the Subconscious to Heal
4. Method for Releasing Pain Energy Blocks

EFT Injury Recovery Method

This method was developed by Stacy Vornbrock.

This procedure has been used successfully to improve Range Of Motion (ROM) following an injury. Whenever there is an injury to the body EFT can be used to clear the following three aspects of the injury:

1) The actual trauma to the body

2) The emotional trauma

3) The memory of protection.

Anytime your body is injured it creates a memory of protection on the cellular level to keep that area safe. That injury can go on to heal but the memory of protection remains in place and acts as if the body is still injured. With EFT it’s very easy to speak directly with the cells and remove this memory of protection thus allowing the body to return to a state of balance.

Step 1: Clear Trauma To The Body

Choose an area of the body that has been injured that you would like to work on with EFT. For this example we will use a shoulder injury. Simply replace the word shoulder with your own injury.

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“Even though I’m holding this trauma in every cell of my shoulder, I deeply and completely accept myself”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I’m holding this trauma in all the muscles of my shoulder

SE: I’m holding this trauma in all the ligaments of my shoulder

UE: I’m holding this trauma in all the tendons of my shoulder

UN: I’m holding this trauma in all the joints of my shoulder

CH: I’m holding this trauma in all the bones of my shoulder

CB: I’m holding this trauma in every cell of my spine

UA: I’m holding this trauma in all the tissues of my shoulder

UB: I’m holding holding this trauma in all the fascia of my shoulder

SE: I’m this trauma in all the nerves of my shoulder

EB: I’m holding this trauma in all the fluids of my shoulder

Step2: Clear The Emotional Trauma

Tap on, anger, frustration and fear that may be stored in the cells at and around the injury site. Focus on how you feel about the pain. Find an emotion or quality in the pain or part of the body in pain. E.g. this resentment in my shoulder, this grief in my neck, this shame in my back etc.

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“Even though I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in every cell of my shoulder, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the muscles of my shoulder

SE: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the ligaments of my shoulder

UE: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the tendons of my shoulder

UN: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the joints of my shoulder

CH: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the bones of my shoulder

CB: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the tissues of my shoulder

UA: I’m holding this anger/fear in all the nerves of my shoulder

UB: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the fascia of my shoulder

EB: I’m holding this anger/fear/frustration in all the fluids of my shoulder

Step3: Clear The Memory of Protection

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“Even though I’m holding this memory of protection in every cell of my shoulder, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the muscles of my shoulder

SE: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the ligaments of my shoulder

UE: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the tendons of my shoulder

UN: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the joints of my shoulder

CH: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the bones of my shoulder

CB: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the nerves of my shoulder)

UA: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the fascia of my shoulder

UB: I’m holding this memory of protection in all the fluids of my shoulder

EB: My body thinks it still has to protect my shoulder

SE: My shoulder doesn’t feel safe

UE: My shoulder is afraid of being re-injured

Method for Releasing Physical Pain and Discomfort

This method was developed by Dr. Carol Look.

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating each statement:

Even though I have this pain in my shoulder, WHAT IF I could release it right now?

Even though I’ve had this pain for (months), WHAT IF my body knows how to get rid of it and I can feel comfortable instead?

Even though I feel this chronic pain in my shoulder, WHAT IF I could wake up tomorrow feeling energetic and strong again?

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: WHAT IF I could feel comfortable and pain free today?

SE: WHAT IF I could remember the emotional cause and move on anyway?

UE: WHAT IF I don’t need the pain any more?

UN: WHAT IF I don’t have to suffer with this pain from now on?

CH: WHAT IF I could feel energetic now?

CB: WHAT IF my body has already begun to release the pain and discomfort?

UA: WHAT IF I could feel joyful and pain free from now on?

TH: WHAT IF I have finally cleared this pain problem once and for all?

Using the “WHAT IF” statements as the affirmation phrases of the first set-up statements is bound to trigger tail-enders (those ‘yes-buts’ that tend show up after saying something positive). That’s what we want, so we can get to the bottom of limiting beliefs about human bodies. When these “tail-enders” surface, use them in subsequent rounds of EFT.

Perhaps you “heard” a tail-ender such as “there’s no way to get rid of this pain, I’ve tried everything!” Proceed with your next EFT round as follows:

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating each statement:

Even though I’ve had this shoulder problem for too long to get better now, I deeply and completely love and accept my whole body.

Even though I’ve tried everything and nothing works on me, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.

Even though my shoulder is “chronic” and isn’t supposed to go away, I love and appreciate my whole body anyway.

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: WHAT IF my pain could be relieved quickly?

SE: WHAT IF I just haven’t been trying the right techniques for it?

UE: WHAT IF I don’t need the pain any more and can enjoy my body?

UN: WHAT IF I don’t have to suffer with this pain the way I thought I had to?

CH: WHAT IF I could feel energetic from now on?

CB: WHAT IF my body has already begun to release the pain and discomfort?

UA: WHAT IF I could feel strength and stamina in my whole body again?

TH: WHAT IF I have finally cleared this pain problem once and for all?

Method for Programming the Subconscious To Heal the Pain

This method was developed by Gary Craig

Sometimes our physical ailments are contributed to by angers, fears and other negative emotions.

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“Even though I may have anger, fear, guilt, hurt, bitterness or who knows whatever emotion, I now choose to allow my body to repair itself on every and all levels, easily completely and permanently”

Tap on all the points using the reminder phrase: “any anger, fear, guilt or other emotion I might have” at each point. Do 3 rounds.

Tap on all the points using the reminder phrase: “I now choose to allow my body to repair itself on every and all levels, easily completely and permanently” at each point. Do 3 rounds

Repeat this statement 3 times while rubbing the “sore spot” on your chest.

“Even though I’ve had this shoulder problem for ______ months, I now choose to allow my body to repair itself on every and all levels, easily completely and permanently”

Tap on all the points using the reminder phrase: “this persistent pain in my shoulder” at each point. Do 3 rounds.

Method for Releasing Pain Energy Blocks

This method was developed by Esther Avinoam.

According to EFT theory, pain is caused when the normal flow of energy through the body is disrupted. The place that hurts is usually the one where the “energy traffic” gets stuck. This exercise is based on releasing energy stuck at the site of pain or injury.

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“Even though the energy flowing through my body is disrupted at my shoulder, I love and accept myself.”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I want to release all the things that block the flow of the energy through my shoulder

SE: this blocked energy at my shoulder

UE: I release this blocked energy at my shoulder

UN: I release this blocked energy at my shoulder

CH: I release everything blocking the energy in my shoulder

CB: I release any built up energy in my shoulder

UA: I release everything and anything blocking the flow of energy through my shoulder

EB: I want to release all the things that block the flow of the energy through my shoulder

SE: this blocked energy at my shoulder

UE: I release this blocked energy at my shoulder

UN: I release this blocked energy at my shoulder

CH: I release everything blocking the energy in my shoulder

CB: I release any built up energy in my shoulder

UA: I release everything and anything blocking the flow of energy through my shoulder

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) while repeating this statement 3 times

“I want to REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder.”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

SE: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

UE: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

UN: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

CH: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

CB: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

UA: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

UB: I REPAIR all the things that block the energy flow through shoulder

EFT Set Up

Rub the Sore Spot (chest point) or tap the karate chop while repeating this statement 3 times

“I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder”

EFT Tapping Script

At each point say:

EB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

SE: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UE: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UN: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

CH: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

CB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UA: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder
EB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

SE: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UE: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UN: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

CH: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

CB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UA: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

UB: I allow energy to flow freely through my shoulder

Angie Muccillo
EFT Practitioner & Instructor
Remedial Massage Therapist (Member AAMT)
(BA Social Science- Psych/Soc)
(Cert IV Remedial Massage)
(EFT-ADV)

Location

Sublime Massage Clinic
Hutton Street
Thornbury Melbourne

Vic Australia 3071

mob: 0417391055
sublime@pacific.net.au
angiemuccillo@gmail.com